A baby changes everything

I have heard repeated many times: baby changes everything

With a baby everything changes. I harshly planned and fought because this doesn’t happen. For want (and more often for force) I hoped that our life would change as little as possible; because I love my life as it is full of unexpected and woe of the last minute. But then the truth: everything has changed, but not as i thought.

When I thought to changes in my mind is reduced all things very simple: I will not have more time for me when we again one dinner alone…! There will be a lot of expenses, we will not be able to go to dance and return the next morning, and so forth.

It was not so

Our daily life, I confess, is not so different from the first: many hours less sleep and a lot of tiredness in more (as every parent of the world). But our day begins and ends at about the same time and follows the same rhythms. There was a little initial fatigue, but within a couple of months, you-there! Schedules and struggles have given their fruits. A few days after your birth I realized that no planning at the world i would be prepared to what was about to happen.

And they were all right: when you have a baby everything changes

And for me changed everything that I was not expecting change. It’s born a mother with all the fears and insecurities of case and saw that the heart is not commanding; the heart has dictated changes in spite of my own will. There are many emotions that I did not know and that now beckon; I must learn to know them, to control them and I will have to make us the accounts. Sometimes I even fit because they do not take possession of me. And now I look at life from a different perspective.
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